Our Rest-Deprivation Crisis
This little-known fact breaks my heart:
When it comes to rest – we are chronically malnourished.
It’s true. We are in the midst of a global rest-deprivation crisis. A Superhero-syndrome.
We. Don’t. Know. How. To. Stop!
Yet modern science concurs: we need rest – in order to thrive.
Many people secretly ache for permission to rest.
But with our burgeoning Superhero-complex – most people simply don’t prioritise rest.
Don’t want to. Don’t know how.
When we don’t take time out to switch ‘off’ and regulate our nervous system –
it eventually shows up as stress and illness.
Things get compromised. Messy.
S i m p l y p u t : R e s t – D e p r i v a t i o n B e c o m e s D i s e a s e .
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I’ve been there – and it was brutal.
You see, life has become a balancing act of relentless to-do lists. We have a chronic perception of urgency – and not enough ‘time’. And as we insist on getting it all ‘done’ we are left severely rest deprived. Spent. Starved for quality sleep and aching for time to just relax into our own lives…
Our ‘always-on’ culture leaves our brains activated like never before. And you’re feeling the effects. We all are.
I see the impacts every day in my work. Fatigue, anxiety, burnout, sleep disorders, stress, inflammation….
Even in our children.
Illness is on the rise. It’s an epidemic…
But because we are resilient and adaptive – we tend to miss the signals. Until it’s too late…
If this kind of self-deception continues – then it’s just a matter of time before exhaustion sets in. Or worse.
Sound familiar?
W e ’ v e f o r g o t t e n h o w t o r e s t .
And we are in trouble.
Seriously! I can hear the outcry form here! “I don’t have time to rest!!!”
I know. I hear you. It feels like a s-t-r-e-t-c-h, to find the time to rest, right?
Yet – perhaps we can’t afford not to?
N o t s u r e y o u n e e d t o r e s t ?
Here’s some questions that act as a kind of litmus test:
– Do you ache for more time – to get it all done?
– Do you struggle through the day? Prop yourself up with stimulants?
– What if you let yourself rest as much as your body wanted to? Needed to?
– How might that (feeling adequately rested) show up in your body? Your life?
– What if you had a Deep Rest Master – right there supporting you? No matter where in the world you live?
– What if she shared her secret tools to help fast-track your relaxation response? So you could eventually feel deeply rested within minutes?
– How might that change things for you?
I knoooow, right? Sooooo many clients and students say that when they do fiiiinally get that 10 minutes break, that hour, or the whole Saturday to themselves to rest – they don’t know where to begin. (And I can guarantee it’s not on Facebook, babe.) Or they come to my class, have a session and float home with a reset system and a renewed intention to rest – but then life rushes back in and they can’t quite seem to make it happen….
We are conditioned to keep ‘doing’, performing, saying ‘yes’, pushing. We’ve got a serious case of FOMO (fear of missing out). Somewhere, we lost contact with our innate human instinct – to rest. In all the ‘busy’. Yep, we lost our rest-compass.
I’m your map AND your sherpa, babe.
I have Superpowers, and I own them.
They include courage, napping and unwavering love. And an uncanny ability to navigate people into profound states of rest.
I re-unite people with their compass.
This is my gift to humanity. To you.
So, consider this your permission slip…
To rest.
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For those who have been following my journey – I have had a major breakthrough in my own health (more about that later).
In a few words – I removed myself from a toxic bedroom environment and viola! I’m back baby!!! Watch those VOC’s!!! (LOL).
This means I have been prolifically creating – in between naps. And in the next few days – I will be sharing with you some some juicy content and gifts to meet your cravings for rest…
Ahhhhhhh……. Yes.
Wherever you are, whatever you bring…
Let’s begin there.
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I have lot’s more to share on the topic of rest. Why we need it. What we gain from resting. How it improves things like sleep and energy and clarity and relationships…
But I don’t want to overwhelm you here.
The conversation has begun.
If you feel to comment on my post please go here – and add your voice. I value your input. We all do.
See you in a few days time….
But I don’t want to overwhelm you.
So watch this space.
The conversation has begun. Please add your voice below…. I value your input. We depend on it.
♡
Loving you all the way…
Thankyou dear Kylian for your encouragement, support & inspiration to make rest a priority. Today when i read your email I had just come out of my restorative practice for the afternoon. Learning to rest when my toddler does makes so much sense. And is essential if I’m to be able to function and sustain in this role as mother. Blessings sister. Keep up the good… work, or rest!? Xxx
You are so welcome Kimberley. I am really glad you have found a way to rest that works! The obstacle of having a toddler – I can only imagine (and I hear from mothers often) – would require you to be a mighty ‘stand’ for yourself. To claim the time. To take it. To value and prioritise rest. Bravo darling… And yes – it’s all about sustainability. I love you. ♡
Sweet words shared Kylian…
Sweet insights…
Gratitude for your willingness to share, guide, mentor, and remind…
You are a gem sistah by simply, eloquently, Being You…
Sending love and joy from the Top End!
Thanks Bhakta!
It feels good to begin this overdue conversation. Glad my voice is being heard. ♡
You’re a guiding light my dear, I just sigh and breathe deeper from simply reading your words.
This discussion has just begun and it needs to continue for a long time, I think, to break our obsession with pushing and striving (both on an individual and societal level). To think that we’ve gotten ourselves into a situation where enough rest is considered a radical concept … but we have. And it’s time to shift it. I really do think this is the time when we start to shift it.
Thank you, love.
Beautiful audio – thanks, Kylian x
Glad you like it Niamh!
(Listen any time here: https://soundcloud.com/user-393023873-215385510/welcome-all-of-it) ♡
Go baby!! Just read this at the bus stop waiting for the kidlets…… After spending the afternoon listening to your audio… And napping ❤️
Wonderful! I love knowing that students (past and current) are really living the work. My heart swells Cathy. Isn’t it liberating to live a life of your own choosing? ♡
<3 you. So true. No more push.
Amen brother. Such a good lesson to really ‘get’. ♡
I love this – a reminder I need right now to rest and heal xx
A reminder yes. And permission – to take all the time you need. ♡
Touched a nerve, poked my subconscious, and lifted my heart. I need to stop, I just need someone to tell me to stop. I have been running on empty these past 3yrs after my mum died. I need help.
Ahhhhh, Great Sandie! I want to touch the collective nerve. Interrupt the status quo. And to lift hearts.
I want to give people permission to stop.
For you to give yourself permission to stop.
I am sorry for your loss. I hope you have all the supports and help you need.
I will be offering more Deep Rest resources soon – just so you know. ♡
Rest is vital, it’s where the healing takes place. I’m a Reiki Master and have spent many weekends resting when you want to be up writing or doing something exciting. It’s also good to rest and see the message behind it as you may need to read a certain book or listen to podcast. Things can often time before you realise what the ‘real’ message was.
Great post. Keep up sharing your wisdom.
Oh I hear you sister. I love when people like you come out of the woodwork to meet me here. Rest is gonna save us. There’s a groundswell. It’s happening. ♡